I'm Becoming my Mom! - a Mother's Day Poem
84Mommy's Little Girl?
I love my mother. She was my rock growing up, my supporter, my confidante, my best friend. Now, I’m a woman. I take care of myself. I rely on myself. I'm all grown up now. But am I really? Or am I still that little girl that longed to be with her mother, depending on her for attention, support, and protection, among a lot of other things...?
Me as a little girl
Bruises and Boo-Boos
Bruises and boo-boos
Gossip and lies--
The woman just smiles
As the little girl cries.
Hot chocolate and Mommy
On wet, rainy days--
The woman sits quietly
As the little girl plays.
Mud pies and Barbies
And Timey-Tell dolls--
The woman stands strong
As the little girl falls.
Harsh words and secrets
And Daddy’s good-byes—
The woman moves on
As the little girl hides.
Tears and confusion
And unexplained sighs--
The woman grows up
As the little girl dies.
_____________________
Mom and Me at Our College Graduation
Mom and Me Down by the River
There! I’ve finished another little poem
About a little girl growing up,
Just like I have—
Or so I think…sometimes.
My mom is proud of me.
I’m a grown woman.
I have a house, a car,
A job that pays well.
I’m strong and independent,
Can support myself and
Make my own decisions—
Just like she taught me.
And I can speak my mind
And question her logic
And disagree, sometimes sternly,
Because of what she’s made me.
She touched my heart and conscience
That often work against me.
Sometimes it’s too much to care so much…
And who do I turn to?
I have friends and siblings
And a guy for many years.
And I cherish and need them,
Yet Mom often I run to…Dadgummit!
How silly I am
When suddenly my eyes
Usually tough and dry
Tear up when I think of Mom.
Thank God for My Mother
Do we ever really NOT need our mothers? I believe the answer is a big, fat NO! I hurt for those who did not have a wonderful, caring mother who instilled in them a sense of right and wrong, self-worth, independence and drive, and all the other important qualities that sends a child out to be successful in the world. And love, love, love—so much unconditional love that you know that no matter what you do in this world, that you can always go back, even if it’s on your knees, to that mother who would stand up to anybody for you and even go the distance to die for you. I have that kind of a mother. Not everyone can say that...and that hurts me for them. A loving mother is a great gift, especially when she becomes your best friend.
I’m in my 40s now. I will need my mother in my 50s…and in my 60s...and even my 70s. I have visions of my mom in her 100s (she’s very healthy!) and me in my 80s. And I will still be her little girl. I will still need her. I will still ask her for advice. And I will still need for her to comfort me, as any little girl would.
Yeah, she’s still here
But too far away
And visits become fewer
As life becomes fuller.
What do I do now, Mom?
Why did he do that, Mom?
Why is life so hard, Mom?
Am I doing the right thing?
Aren’t I tougher than that?
Can’t I do it on my own?
Sure I can—and I will!
But is that what Mom would do?
Gosh—sometimes I catch myself
Saying phrases she says
Giving advice she has given—
Did you brainwash me, Mom?
Sometimes I’ll even look over,
Catch a reflection in the mirror,
The turn of the smile, the eyes—
It’s my mother. It’s my mother!
God, I’m becoming my mother!
Does any girl think that will happen?
Oh, God, I’m becoming my mother!
Thank God I’m becoming my mother.
Thank God…’cause there’s nothing better.
Thank God for my Mother
A Mother's Day-- beautiful song by Jim Brickman
And Now on to Dad
- Daddy's Little Girl - Father's Day Poem
"Daddy's Little Girl" is a perfect poem for Father's Day. This poem reflects on the author's memories as a little girl, and the changes and growth that occurred after her parents' divorce.
Another Poem About Mothers
- Hiding Behind Mother's Skirts - a Mother's Day Poem
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Hauntingly beautiful. How lucky you are to have your mother, and what an inspiring tribute to her. Voted up, awesome, beautiful and interesting.
Really beautiful Victoria! This one really hit home for me since I have started saying some of my mother's famous sayings! Loved it - voted up!
Oh my dear Victoria...this is an amazing and true account of a daughter's memory, appreciation, recognition, fear of, respect for, deference to, reverence for, awe of, honor of , envy of, disagreement with, consideration of and love for her mother. We all go through that time...and it repeats itself often, when we catch our mother in our own reflection..when we hear her in our words, when we muse over options, opinions and moods as she did. We see that gleam in our eye which is a mirror image of her...we are her daughter...forever and always.
WOW! This is a number ONE A-ONE FIRST CLASS flight into the mind and heart of women ... and the spirit of our relationship with our mother and she with us.
Love the entroduction and the poetry which, upon reflection; you then turn to prose....artistically and beautifully written.
ALL UPS my dear!!!!!
Kathy
My sweet Lord! (True to the song!) :-) There's nothing wrong with being Mommy's Little Girl. The connection between mother and daughter is great when it's there, and I feel sorry for those who don't have it with their mothers or daughters. My mom and I are definitely connected by genes, influence, nature, nurture, and all that stuff! I enjoyed the comments about your sister, as well as your compliments to me. Always a pleasure...!
Thanks, K Burns Darling & Alissa! Thanks for the votes and compliments. I AM very lucky to have my mother and feel so close to her. Alissa, doesn't it just strike you funny when you hear yourself saying things your mother would say? Love it! :-)
It is too funny. All those things I vowed never to say to my children are just popping out of my mouth lately. I never knew how wise that woman was until I had my own kids. ;-)
How very beautiful and expressive! It's so easy to take things for granted, even the most important and influential people in our life! A loving, caring mother who makes sacrifices for her children and who is always there for them is a true blessing. Sadly though, there are those who have grown up without a mother because of death or neglect, or other obstacles. Or they have mothers who are struggling with things like drug addiction and mental issues, and it's so sad that some people are robbed of the all the love a mother has to offer.
This is really a great poem..Thanks
A beautiful poem: your mother could not hope for a better gift than this tribute to her and your relationship: has inspired me to reflect on my own mother and send her a similar message, just to remind her how much she means to me.
Nobody can give advice quite like a mother! I always think of my mum as 'the wise woman'!!
A beautiful poem and lovely, lovely hub, thank you for sharing.
Kathy, you're a doll! You write the most eloquent comments! Thanks for seeing and expressing everything I was trying to convey...and more! I like what you said about the "spirit of the relationship." So true. Thank you so much!
A very lovely poem reflecting your childhood and growing up and your mom , wow ! i bet you do miss her alot , you two have gone through alot together , i voted up ,awesome and beautiful ! have a wonderful day!:)
It IS funny, alissa!
natatliejs--I, too, feel so bad for those who don't have their mother or who don't have that wonderful relationship. Many don't, and I feel for them. I truly am grateful for what I have. Thanks for the comments.
Thanks htodd and Ivona! Glad I inspired you, Ivona, to reach out with a message to your own mother!
Movie Master--aren't our mums indeed wise? I love how you say "mum"! :-)
Thanks for reading, Jami, and for the kind comments and votes! :-)
Your mother will be so proud of you--such a loving and beautiful tribute to her. As a mother myself, I can say nothing makes a mother happier. Awesome and rated up.
My mom does love it, anglnwu! Glad you enjoyed it, as well. Thanks for the votes!
Great tribute and reminder of how blessed we are to have mothers and luckier if we have daughters.
Great tribute and reminder of how blessed we are to have mothers and luckier if we have daughters.
You were so lucky to have such a mother. I can only imagine. I enjoyed how the adult in the poem was still a little girl inside with all the needs and wants of a little girl but having to act big. Excellent poem.
Frannie Dee--Thanks Frannie Dee. I don't have a daughter, but my mother does (haha), and I trust she feels the same about me that I do her. :-)
homesteadbound--Yes, I know I'm lucky to have had and still have a wonderful mother. And I'll never outgrow needing her. Thanks for the nice comments.
I look like my mom who looks like her mom; my daughter favors me and she knows it, kids about it...and then says, "I love you.".
Your "the woman grows up as the little girl dies" hit me in the heart. Such poignent expression. The song was beautiful and though I didn't know anyone, each one was special to watch as he sang. Thanks for a great hub!
frogyfish--Cute story about your family! That's special. I'm glad the poem and song spoke to you. Glad you came by!
Awesome poem about your bond with your Mom. You are both blessed. I miss my mom everyday...my daughter and granddaughter keep me grounded though:)
Sunshine, I often pray that God will allow my mom to live 20, 30, 40 more years! And she may, b/c sometimes I think she's younger than I am. haha. She's a fountain of youth, energy, and all the optimism I never had. I'm sure you miss your mom. I don't have a daughter, but I do have nieces. I will never have that close relationship with a daughter that my mom and I share, but perhaps I can continue it with my nieces. After all, I am the "cool" aunt! :-)
Victoria, This is very emotional poem. The way you have told the story of growing up years is really touching. It is when we are in front of our parents that we become children once again no matter how much grown up we are. Thanks for sharing.
With warm wishes,
MAKUSR
Awww... you really made me cry Victoria.This is a great one.Thanks!
Wow, this is a mirror of my life with my Mother. Thank you for sharing.
So true, MAKUSR. I'll always be my mom's little girl. Good to see you again!
Nelly A--I made you cry???!!!! Gosh, I'm sorry...and honored, too!
T4an--I'm glad that you are as fortunate as I am to have such a relationship with your mother. Wonderful! Thanks!
You are both remarkable women, I think it is great that you graduated together. Marvelous.
I had to chuckle as my wife is always saying 'I am turning into my mother' lol
Voted up and beautiful
That's kind of you to say about my mom and me, molometer. Yeah, it's very cool that we went to college and graduated together. My mom and brother and I even had a class or two together. How cool is that! Thanks so much for your comments and votes. I bet a lot of women, just as your wife, can relate to turning into their mothers. :-)
God sent our mothers because he could not be with everyone. Thanks for this celebration of motherhood.
I love what you said about God sending out mothers, Vinaya! Very profound...and true, I'm sure.
This is so beautiful..and so true...I just lost my mom ain july...she was my best friend...I can see myself turning into her...I am so proud she wad a wonderful woman and mother..bless you for writing this. I voted up and beautiful. Debbie
Debbie, I'm so sorry you lost your mom. I can't imagine. I hope mine is around for many, many more years. It's not such a bad thing to turn into our mothers, huh? I'm glad you thought the poem to be beautiful and true. Bless you!
VictoriaLynn, What a beautiful tribute to mother's everywhere..
Thanks, cbpoet. Glad you liked it!
I think we never stop needing or wanting that relationship with a loving mother--kudos to you!
I agree, Audrey! Thanks for reading and commenting. Thanks for the kudos!:-)
A beautiful poem and thank you for sharing; here's to so many more to share on here and I have to award this one that up up and away.
Take care and enjoy your day.
Eddy.
Thanks, Eddy, for the up, up, and away. I love that!
'My Mother's Hands'
I remember…
Your tender hands
comforting me
when my hands are hurt
Your healing massage
flowing through my feet
when my fever are high
Your attentive hands
swinging the cradle
during my baby years
Your strict hands
waving that scary stick
raising us to be responsible
Your concern look
after that slap
which taught me to be mature
Your protectiveness
which came from your deep intent
to keep us safe
Your gentle hands
working non-stop
to put food on the table
Your playful heart
knowing how to survive
through adversity and trials
Your doubts and worries
when matters at hands
are closest to your heart
Your resilient strength
continuing to hold a light
for us when all is dark
Your harsh words
may seem like thorns
when we were children
Your temperament
we are learning to accept
now that we are adults
We are learning to accept
because you are our beloved mom
our one and only mom
? Copyright by Haikutwinkle
Very nice, Haikutwinkle. You portrayed so many qualities that mothers have. Thanks for leaving such a beautiful response.
This is so very beautiful. Mother's are very special. Loved the hub.
So glad you appreciated the poem, Vellur!
Such a cute little girl!
And the poem, breathtakingly deep, poignant, heartfelt. You can see and hear everything in between the lines. So beautiful, thank you for sharing...
What a touching, beautiful poem and hub and I love that you included the personal photos.
Your mom sounds like an amazing woman and a great example for you.
How cool that she went back to college along with you and your brother.
You can see by the body language in the photos how close you and your mom are.
Voted up across the board except for funny.
Oh Victoria,
This hub was so very special. What a beautiful young lady you were and are still. Your mom and you look so much alike and the pictures say it all..the love you have for eachother. My girls are 31 and 24 and are my best of friends. We as moms always want our daughters to be independent and strong...I do too see a glimpse of my mom as I pass by the mirror..it is amazing..Thank you for sharing this heartfelt hub. Your love for your mom shines through.
Sunnie
Aw, AA, thank you; you are so sweet. I love your heartfelt comments. So glad you appreciate the poem. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Happyboomernurse--I love your comments, so kind and true. My mom IS an amazing woman--has always been! It does my heart good that people see that about her and the great bond that can exist between mother and daughter.
Great Poem!!! I think we all of "little girls" become our mom when we grow up. I don't think we realize it unless we move away from our mom or our mom is no longer with us. Even though my mom is still here, there are a few things that I know I am like her, but since my grandmother has passed, my mother and I both can see how mom is like her mom. It is funny how as moms, we can see how much our daughter's are like us, but as daughter's, we can't see how much we are like mom until they aren't with us any longer.
I am continually telling my daughter that is so mom, she so disagrees.
Thanks, Sunnie Day!!!! Your compliments mean so much, about me and my mom both. We have always been the best of friends. I'm missing her right now just thinking about her. She lives about 3 hours away from here. I so wish we lived closer! Thank you so much for your wonderful comments. I'm so glad you experience the same kind of relationship with your own daughters.
suebee--It IS funny. I see more and more of my mom in me as I get older. I'm glad. She's a great person, and I'm fortunate that she is still around. I appreciate your input and am very pleased that you like the poem!
What a wonderful tribute to your mother. It was so beautiful and very touching. I love your poetry.
Thanks, Kebennett--I appreciate that!
Thanks for the nice poem ..nice reading that
Thanks, amithak, for reading and commenting!
This poem made me really emotional. Thank you Victoria!
Aw, that's sweet, Phelcky. I'm glad the poem touched you. Take care.
Hi Victoria Lynn, This is so true. I am also becoming my mother but instead of seeing this as a negative thing I'm starting to see it as a more positive experience. I guess that's just part of growing up. Thanks for sharing. Take care, Kelley
Jeez! I finally got down to the bottom of the comments to comment!That's just BEAUTIFUL Victoria Lynn. You two are so lucky to have each other. I loved the story about you two graduating together. Happy Mother's Day!
Very nice. Enjoyed it immensely!
Voted up!
I agree, totally, kelleyward! Becoming my mom is a great thing! Thanks for reading and commenting.
Thanks, rebecca. Glad you enjoyed this. My mom and I have shared some pretty special times. I realize now more than then how cool it is that we graduated together!!!
Thanks so much, Chris!
lord de cross 6 months ago
Dear Victoria,
Yes you are..and will become your mom. My sister told me..there is this person that bumped into me, and never saw him again. "You see those hands? those are your mom's hands in you. You see you...or you feel every beat of your heart as we talk or read? That's your mom's heart beating with you. Ever talk to each other...and as you both reach a matureness, sometimes end up saying the same word.." My sister told him, how did he know? He just walked by and saw in her eyes things nobody could see. Then he dissapeared in the middle of the night. So, Whether is genes or connectivity. There is a link for life. And is stronger in women, indeed. Your poems are so touching I jump back and forth and our mind can't keep up, when you take us back in time. And you dear friend were a beautiful little momma's girl...and you still do!
LORD